Realizing that your teen or young adult child needs help for their substance use or addiction can be scary and overwhelming, and you are not alone if you have no idea where to begin. There is no one-size-fits-all answer so it can take a fair amount of research to figure out what type of help your child needs, and how to get it. No matter where you are emotionally, mentally or physically, we’re here to help.
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When many people think about treatment for substance use, detox and rehab may come to mind. In reality, detox (detoxification) is not treatment as it addresses just the physical withdrawal symptoms only, and a residential program is just one of a variety of options. Treatment for substance use disorder can take place in different settings (inpatient or outpatient); some are more intense than others.
It helps to learn about the options available, keeping in mind that the program you select should address your child’s physical, psychological, emotional and social issues in addition to their substance use.
Having your child assessed by a doctor — discussed below — can help you determine the best type of care for your child.
Getting the right treatment for your child is a process, and navigating the healthcare system requires careful examination, determination, and some caution. If you’ve searched online for help or treatment for your loved one, you’ve likely come across what are advertised as free treatment referral services. These services are often linked to private, for-profit treatment providers. Those providers may offer acceptable treatment, but it’s important to check them out before buying a service that could put someone else’s profit above the best interests of your family.
Try to schedule an evaluation for your child to determine the best possible care. Evaluations are typically done by independent providers or mental health professionals at outpatient programs. They should include a clinical assessment along with a substance use screening to determine the level of care that’s most appropriate. Insurance will probably cover the assessment, but there may be a co-pay or other out-of-pocket costs.
Use the Safe Locator, ASAM directories, or Psychology Today to find a provider.
If a clinical evaluation is not an option, the following are important considerations to determine the right treatment for your child. Insurance coverage and benefits may be a deciding factor as well. Click here to learn more about paying for treatment:
It may be helpful to ask for daily and/or weekly programming schedules to see what kinds of counseling and activities are offered and how your child will spend their time.
Your insurance company may be able to provide you with a list of in-network treatment providers. Often the lists are not specific to the kind of care you may be looking for so it’s important to call programs to verify their services.
Partnership to End Addiction and SAFE Project have developed a user-friendly resource for families seeking help, the SAFE Locator. This search tool combines treatment information from a government database with a first-of-its-kind locator for accessing family support services.
For opioid treatment needs, SAMHSA also offers the following:
Once you have a list of potential treatment providers, it’s important to call and ask lots of questions to determine who can best meet your family’s needs.
As your search narrows, remember to cross reference what providers tell you with your insurance company. A treatment or program may say they take insurance, but you’ll need to verify that your insurance company will authorize the type of services selected for the specific program you are considering.
When it’s time for your child to begin treatment, it’s important to stay involved, connected and aware of everything that can happen. After all, even successful journeys will have a few bumps in the road.
The following are a few things to be prepared for:
Treatment is not over after discharge; rather that is when much of the hard work is really just beginning. Aftercare should be a part of any treatment plan. Families need a successful discharge plan that can be realistically implemented.
The following are important elements to consider for your child’s initial recovery plan.